Being overweight prevents relaxed and exciting sexuality because the extra weight makes us feel lazy, clumsy and tensed. Those who have problems with their weight should definitely start working on their problem.
People that are suffering from obesity are usually not satisfied with their appearance which makes them feel uncomfortable around their partner. This is especially true when they have to get naked in order to have sex. These people simply can’t be relaxed when it comes to sex, mostly because they are focused on the look of their body and they can’t stop thinking about what their partner thinks about their physical appearance and are they even appealing to them. Of course, we are not talking about cases when someone has few extra pounds and he or she looks chubby. We are talking about excessive obesity where the individual has more than 100 lbs of excessive weight. This is a condition which makes individuals indifferent to many things. These people are often convinced that they are fat, they can’t do anything about it and they will have to practice boring sex and overall boring life.
Another big disadvantage of suffering from obesity is the excessive sweating which also means taking a shower more than once a day (especially during summer). But many obese people are convinced that they are not going to have sex so they stop taking care about their personal hygiene. This can be a great problem because personal hygiene is prerequisite for a healthy sex life and different sexual pleasures. Excessive weight can result in inflammation between the thighs.
Obese people have limited choice of sex positions. For example, obese men will have to skip the missionary position or any other position where they are on top. This means that the man will have to accept the positions where he is being dominated. Obese women can practice doggy position but this position can cause pain in their knees which can lead to serious injuries over time. All these things mean that obese people cannot enjoy sex like others because the number of sex positions that they can practice are very limited.
However, there are men who are interested in obese women. It seems that these men enjoy being with women who have extra pounds and they find skinny or women with normal weight unattractive. In fact they find larger women sexier. Women suffering from obesity would definitely be very happy if they find men like that, but truth to be told men like that are very rare – they are exceptions not a rule.
It appears that the biggest problem of obese people is the lack of self-awareness, the dissatisfaction with one’s own body. Even the partner who loves that person doesn’t look so harsh on those extra pounds. However, people are visual beings meaning they are really sensitive about their appearance. So if you are having problems with excessive weight – you can either accept your body and start enjoying it or do something to lose those extra pounds.