Sex is more than just bouncing thrusting and grinding. It is more about the soulful connection of two bodies. And no, I am not referring to soul ties. What I am saying is, sex is better when the two parties involved are totally connected with each other, appreciating and being more involved in each part of the body not just the reproductive organs. To derive that satisfying and fulfilling sex, one which your partner would look you in the eyes and say, “Thank you, I loved it”, then you might want to do more than just thrusting.

What more should you do than thrusting? Touch every erogenous zone that will make your partner go wild with sexual pleasure and hunger for more. Let’s take a look at some of the erogenous zones that are often neglected.

Breasts

Most men will always mention the breast when asked of what they desire in a woman’s figure. But then, you’d wonder why they often neglect it during sex, probably because they are eager to get into the thrusting game to show off their manliness. Sex shouldn’t be that way; unless it’s a quickie. If you are down for a full time sex, then you should go through the foreplay process which should involve the breasts. Licking and gently sucking the nipples, areolas, while grabbing the full breasts would give your partner the first orgasm before the main sex. Women should also lick their partner’s nipples, they are sensitive too. Sucking the nipple and the area around a man’s chest also gives them sexual pleasure and strength to go through with the sex.

The balls

For the ladies, you might want to give your man a blow job to get him all prepped up for thrusting. While concentrating on the sausage, don’t forget the surroundings. Your man might not want to tell you, but he also derives great joy from getting his balls sucked too, albeit gently. You can go down from the tip of the penis, glide your tongue slowly down to the base of his penis, taking in his balls one after the other in your mouth while stroking the sausage. Real good sex experiences with this oral sex move.

Neck

This is a spot when handled perfectly, makes your partner emit loud moans. Using the tip of your tongue to glide up and down (in a slow motion), the sides of your partners neck while cradling the head like that of a baby will make your partner secrete fluids prepping the sexual organs for deep thrusting. You can also kiss, blow or better still, suck the base of the neck for greater impact.

The ears

Want your partner harder down there and probably get goose bumps too? Then a quick lick on the outer lobe of the ear will do the trick. The ear is another sensitive part of the body which gives a reaction when touched, licked or nibbled. It could even make your partner jerk, resulting in a hard on.

Back of the Knee

This is another part you might want to try out to see your partner’s reaction which is often a soothing one. You can kiss it slowly working your way to the laps or you can just touch or massage it.