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Touching Erogenous Zones for Maximum Sexual Pleasure

Sex is more than just bouncing thrusting and grinding. It is more about the soulful connection of two bodies. And no, I am not referring to soul ties. What I am saying is, sex is better when the two parties involved are totally connected with each other, appreciating and being more involved in each part of the body not just the reproductive organs. To derive that satisfying and fulfilling sex, one which your partner would look you in the eyes and say, “Thank you, I loved it”, then you might want to do more than just thrusting.

What more should you do than thrusting? Touch every erogenous zone that will make your partner go wild with sexual pleasure and hunger for more. Let’s take a look at some of the erogenous zones that are often neglected.

Breasts

Most men will always mention the breast when asked of what they desire in a woman’s figure. But then, you’d wonder why they often neglect it during sex, probably because they are eager to get into the thrusting game to show off their manliness. Sex shouldn’t be that way; unless it’s a quickie. If you are down for a full time sex, then you should go through the foreplay process which should involve the breasts. Licking and gently sucking the nipples, areolas, while grabbing the full breasts would give your partner the first orgasm before the main sex. Women should also lick their partner’s nipples, they are sensitive too. Sucking the nipple and the area around a man’s chest also gives them sexual pleasure and strength to go through with the sex.

The balls

For the ladies, you might want to give your man a blow job to get him all prepped up for thrusting. While concentrating on the sausage, don’t forget the surroundings. Your man might not want to tell you, but he also derives great joy from getting his balls sucked too, albeit gently. You can go down from the tip of the penis, glide your tongue slowly down to the base of his penis, taking in his balls one after the other in your mouth while stroking the sausage. Real good sex experiences with this oral sex move.

Neck

This is a spot when handled perfectly, makes your partner emit loud moans. Using the tip of your tongue to glide up and down (in a slow motion), the sides of your partners neck while cradling the head like that of a baby will make your partner secrete fluids prepping the sexual organs for deep thrusting. You can also kiss, blow or better still, suck the base of the neck for greater impact.

The ears

Want your partner harder down there and probably get goose bumps too? Then a quick lick on the outer lobe of the ear will do the trick. The ear is another sensitive part of the body which gives a reaction when touched, licked or nibbled. It could even make your partner jerk, resulting in a hard on.

Back of the Knee

This is another part you might want to try out to see your partner’s reaction which is often a soothing one. You can kiss it slowly working your way to the laps or you can just touch or massage it.

How to Stimulate the G-spot in the right way?

You have probably read or heard about naughty novels which tell a story about some lonely and unsatisfied girl who finally manages to find the right man who somehow hits her g-spot from the first time and she feels incredible sexual pleasure. Most people believe that this is only part of the imagination of the writer, but the truth is that these spots exist. However, stimulation of the this sensual spot is still a major scientific mystery that occupies the minds of many scientists, but also the minds of many sexually active women and men. Many claim that they have searched and found this spot while someone got lost during this journey. Some people claim that they are not looking for it because it simply doesn’t exist. The fact is that many sexologists claim that the g-spot exists. The best part of this hot spot is that you can stimulate it on your own or ask your partner to do it. Now let’s see some of the ways that can help you stimulate g spot that leads to incredible orgasms.

Sex toys

Have you ever seen vibrators that are curved at the top? Although they look weird, their appearance is specially designed for finding and stimulating the g-spot. Place some lubricants on the vibrator and place the curved top toward the top of the stomach and start with the stimulation. Remember to keep some other erogenous zones like the clitoris and breasts active too. But, if you are doing this naughty experiment with your partner, let him try to find the g-spot with the sex toys. In this way you will be able to relax completely and enjoy better sexual experience.

Fingers

In case you don’t feel comfortable buying a sex toy or you simply don’t feel comfortable using one, you can always use your partner’s or your own fingers. Add a small amount of lubricant on the index and middle finger. After that, place the fingers for around few inches inside the vagina and slowly make them firmer and start the stimulation. You should not have long nails in order to avoid injuries. You can easily notice the g-spot because this area is usually smoother than the rest of the vagina. If you are stimulating your vagina on your own you can easily adjust the speed, pressure and the other factors that will make you feel more comfortable. If you want your partner to help you, feel free to give him some guides.

Different sensations

Some women say that stimulation of the g-spot makes them feel an urge to urinate while others start to feel excitement instantly. If nothing happens at first, try to stimulate this spot in different ways. For example, change the angle, try to increase or decrease the speed, pressure, circular motions or any other way that will make you feel more comfortable.

Don’t forget that you can stimulate the g-spot with the penis during penetration. The best way to do this is when you are on top of your partner because you can control the speed and intensity of stimulation.

Few Hot Body Spots on a Man’s Body

Both men and women have hot body spots, but the truth is that men unfortunately don’t have so many erotic points on their body as women. Some experts suggest that with the right way of touching, almost any part of women’s body can produce wild and sexy sensations. One of the reasons for that is the fact that women know and understand their body a little better than men. Moreover, some men claim that the only part of the body where they can feel sexual excitement when a woman touches them is their penis. However, the truth is that men can become excited in a matter of seconds even without a single touch. Men are visual creatures so they can sometimes get excited more from the things they see than anything else. This is one of the reasons why many men love sex with the lights on. Nevertheless, women need to find out more about the touches that can make their men feel ecstasy.

Many women complain that there is not enough foreplay and that men want to get into real action once they get rid of the clothes and underwear. But, have you ever wondered whether you have your own part in this situation or not? Are you really actively participating in the foreplay? If you are honest and you are not really active it is definitely time for some changes. You can always learn something new about male’s body even if you know your partner very well. Of course, we are talking about male erogenous points. The more obvious zones/points are the foreskin, glans penis, lips, buttocks, nipples and neck. This is something that most women know and that’s why we will present few less known erogenous zones which even your partner may not know about.

For example, only a small number of women and men know that the forearm can provide an exceptional experience and pleasure. The outer (upper) part of the forearm in men is extra sensitive because of the presence of small hair. The smooth underside of the forearm is filled with tense muscles that require stimulation and relaxation. If you want to stimulate this area place your hands on his forearm – fingers on the lower part of the forearm and the thumbs on the upper part. Use your fingers to gently massage the forearm. The combination of physical contact and relaxation will encourage your partner to continue with more intimate contact.

Another good way to stimulate your partner is the area located inside of the thighs. This is another very sensitive area and stimulating this area almost never fails. Spread his legs apart and starts with a massage that starts from the knees and ends near the penis. In this way you will direct the flow of blood to the penis and enhance the arousal. Your partner will get a really strong erection after few minutes.

Finally, you can explore the lower back area located just over the line between the buttocks. A strong massage will please any man. Just make sure that you tell him that you won’t do anything else back there but a massage in that small area. Once the procedure is over your partner will feel relaxed and more flexible which is certainly important for a good sex session.

The role of Nipples in Sex Excitement

Nipples are present in both men and women. But yet showing women’s nipples in public is considered something morally wrong. Isn’t it a little bit funny when we see a video or image in which the nipples are crossed with black tape? We were all raised by our mothers and most of us were breastfeed so this is a little bit awkward. We all know what’s behind the censored area and we have all had them in our mouth and sucking on them when we were babies.

It is an interesting fact that most women dislike or simply they are not satisfied with the look of their nipples. Some of them think they are too small or too big while some of them think that they are too light or too dark. When they link the appearance of their nipples with the beauty of their breasts in general some women become worried and in extreme cases they feel like they need to go on a surgery and solve the problem.

The truth is that nipples come in different forms – big, small, fat, pointy etc. There are women that have nipples turned inward but that should not be a reason for panic. This occurrence should be gone before the woman gets pregnant and it is almost always gone when she gives birth. The occurrence of milk discharge on the other hand is a clear sign that a woman needs to take care of her hygiene. This discharge is also a common occurrence in women that use birth control pills. If the discharge occurs irregularly you don’t have to go to the doctor because it is usually gone in one week. According to some legends Casanova was such a good lover that he caused women’s breast to produce milk but he was obviously dealing with this type of discharge.

When it comes to nipples and sex excitement it is good to know that the nipples together with the dark ring around them (areola) are the most sensitive part of the breast. But, not all women experience the same intensity of pleasure when they are touched or stimulated in some other way. Nipples tend to swell when the woman is sexually aroused. In some cases, this is not a sign of sexual desire but rather a reaction to the cold weather or excitement in general. That’s why you should not always think about sex when you see that your partner partner’s nipples have a reaction. Some women during puberty or when they take birth control pills notice that long hair grow around the areola. This is not a reason for panicking. This hair has a function but it can be easily removed. This hair is there for the infants that need guidance to reach the breasts. Remember that this is something completely natural and there is nothing to be ashamed of.

All the things we’ve mentioned apply for men too (except for mammary glands). Nipples in men don’t have absolutely any function but they act as an erogenous zones in men too.

How to Eliminate Sex Problems?

Both men and women can suffer from various sexual disorders and problems. Luckily, these problems can be solved by using some of the many available methods.

Sexuality is a thing that concerns two individuals if they are in a relationship. That’s why you cannot leave your partner deal with these problems on his own. You should show support and complete understanding. Examine the causes of these problems together and try to eliminate these problems together. The most common sex problem in men is decreased sexual power or decreased potency as some people call it. In many cases these are psychological problems, which are reflection of the mental state of one individual. During the process of elimination of these disorders it is very important for the woman to take her role because she is the one that knows her man the best. If they cannot solve the sex problem together, they should consider visiting an expert in this field, so don’t be too shy to speak with strangers about this problem because they are qualified for solving this kind of situations. Keep in mind that this is a much better option than waiting for the problem to resolve on its own. It is crucial to get the maximal support from your partner during this process.

If a man wants to prevent possible difficulties in his sex life, it is good for him to know his woman’s body in the same way he knows his body. This means that men need to know all the hidden spots that provide women pleasure. Men should not engage in sexual activity with women that they don’t know well and with women that they don’t feel close. In this way they can avoid possible fears that they won’t be able to satisfy the woman when they have sex for the first time. It is highly recommended for men to have sex only with women that they truly want. Sex should not be viewed as a hobby or just to fulfill some primeval instinct.

Another big mistake that men should avoid is to stop communicating with a woman with who he had bad sex. This can leave bad feeling and it can lead to decreased self-confidence. This is why you need to give second chance and have different approach in the sex act. The first sex is usually uncomfortable so on your second date try to focus on her erogenous zones, relax your partner and try to relax yourself. Avoid alcohol and try to be rested before you start the sex act.

If all these things can’t help you maybe it’s time to visit a sexologist. These professionals understand most of these problems and difficulties in sex life. The therapies must be attended by both partners or they won’t work. Visiting a sexologist is especially useful for couples who usually have difficulties to talk about intimate stuff. During these therapies you can find out new things and conclusions that were hidden deeply in your sub-consciousness.

Why is Masturbation exercise good for our Health?

Throughout the history masturbation was considered to be wrong. It was usually described as something sinful and morally wrong. Modern society has slowly changed its view on masturbation and although it remains a taboo there are a lot of researches that are conducted and that prove that practicing masturbation is good for human health.

In the moment when some person experiences orgasm, the body is filled hormones and substances that make that person feel good and happy, and those substances can also improve the general health. We all know how healthy is to practice sex with another person, but having solo sex can also be beneficial for many aspects of human health.

  1. Masturbation exercise enhances immune system. During the orgasm among many hormones that are released there is one hormone called Oxytocin that helps white blood cells to fight infections in a better and more efficient way. According to some studies, women that have higher levels of Oxytocin in their bodies are dealing with their period much easier. It is also helpful for menstrual cramps and other types of pain.
  2. No matter how you achieve an orgasm, it is always useful when it comes to stress. Stress is number one factor for many diseases and by practicing masturbation you will feel relaxed and calm.
  3. Consider masturbation as a form of exercise. With the help of masturbation you can burn calories and fat. Keep in mind that having a sex with a partner requires much more physical activity but masturbation can still be helpful because of all the muscles that are active during the process, increased blood flow and faster breathing. It sounds like a good cardiovascular exercise right?
  4. Some people are afraid of having sex because of the risk that it brings – all types of diseases or the chance of conception even though they use protection. Abstinence can help with that problem but the sex drive can’t be surprised for a long time. Masturbation is probably the safest method to achieve orgasm and have something close to actual sex without worrying about the things mentioned before.
  5. The best way to improve your sexual techniques is to explore your body to the fullest extent. And it looks like there is no better way to do it other than masturbation. Masturbation allows you to explore your erogenous zones and find out what turns you on and what gives you pleasure. This experimentation with your own body will eventually lead to having more pleasure when you have intercourse with your partner and you will feel more confident once you know yourself.
  6. There are many people, especially women, who can’t reach orgasm with their sexual partners. The reasons can be different – traumatic experience from the past, medical conditions, orgasmic dysfunctions etc. Whatever the reason is, these people can reach orgasm much easier if they rely on masturbation. Personal stimulation may allow the body to be more sensitive to sexual contact with others.