Even the smartest women are sometimes able to make the most stupid and ridiculous errors.
Trying to solve his problems
If a man constantly complained of unpleasant work, forever screaming kids or poor relations with his mother, who forcibly visited twice a year – this is not a cry for help to you!
The man, is able to independently solve issues that bear his unpleasant feelings: to find a new job, to fix relations with his colleagues to spend more time with the kids and the whole family. If not matured to such steps, better leave it alone.
You think your old relationships are still important to him
If these relations are completed, so this is no reason.
No need to try to dig into his past, you’d better try to create a wonderful present. Eventually, you have to have respect for his privacy, when you have not attended it. You mentally calm, that he was not aware of what he was doing. Well, remember though that we are not out of the monastery directly to a meeting with him.
Conducted as a slave under the dominion of man
Naturally, no one has canceled the historical role of women in marriage, but it is unnecessary extremes to forget about their education, career, hobbies and friends just because you have a spouse, who must cherish.
Find a happy medium to be happy and you yourself.
Nothing changes in your life, when the man appeared
Yes, it is necessary to disappear from the sight of his friends, but not to stop with night parties or permanent missions is not correct.
You already have two, you have to think how you can spend more time together and to seek compromise.
Do not pay attention to how and what he talks about other women
We are all mature girls and not allow unreasonable fits of jealousy.
But everything has its limits: his stories for appetizing accountant or former reminder – this is pure outrage! If tact is not the strong side of your husband, then a direct request not to talk too much about the other women would be completely normal.
Returning to the former again and again
Again reminded that when a relationship is over, they are over. And point.
This is not a game where there is time out for rest and after her turbulent romance continues. Mostly refers to those men who made us suffer. He will not change, will not start to behave otherwise, everything will gradually reach that point where relations have been suspended yet again.
Trying to find the perfect man
As perfect as you perceive him.
It is time to accept the fact that men are completely different types of people that radically differ from us women. Beautiful, two senior, three languages, beautiful mother in law and the absence of harmful habits – or description of a person with manic tendencies, or a man who is looking for the same such a perfect wife (which does not exist).
Pains to be better than his mother
For each man the mother as a separate island where can always go and cry unfulfilled dreams.
Mom is the one who will suffer with it even when her son was a complete failure. It is therefore entirely logical her eager attitude of the children to the mother. And it is not worth trying to borrow its place will one day have his own children.