Being in a relationship is indeed fulfilling. It makes you feel wholesome and complete. It simply means that you are appreciated for who you are. However, there are situations that you need to avoid at all costs especially when it comes to intimate moments. It is often said that awkward sexual situations do not end once you are beyond your teen years. Finding yourself in an awkward sexual situation does not only leave you tongue-tied; it can be very embarrassing.
Being caught in the act is probably the most awkward sexual situation you need to avoid at all costs. While kids may interpret your position as a fight between you and your partner, an adult will definitely not. How you explain to kids and an adult your action is very important. The worst thing you can do is to fail to offer an explanation. A “sorry” to an adult and a reasonable explanation should be enough to take away your guilt.
Failure to get aroused is the other sticky sex situation you need to avoid. Failure to get aroused when your partner wants to get intimate with you can not only be embarrassing to you but affect your relationship negatively. It can actually be worse in case you often fail to get aroused. Because such issues as hormonal changes and stress can cause this situation, it is better to arm yourself with a lubricant (in case you are a woman). Communicating with your partner should also work wonders in getting you aroused.
Going to bed with your ex is another sticky sex situation that most people find themselves in, with dire consequences. Getting to bed with your ex can be very tempting especially if your break-up was mutual. It can be tempting because this is a person you know and therefore familiar with. Because one of you will be enjoying sex for the sake of it, the other will probably want to get the relationship back on track. The reality is that one of you will end up getting hurt. It is always a good idea to remain faithful to yourself regardless of how strong your relationship was with your ex.
Having sex when you are in your period cycle or when your partner is in her period cycle can be very embarrassing. Apart from being messy, it can leave you with a sense of guilt hard to deal with. It is always a good idea to let your partner know about your situation long before you meet up. In inform your partner (in case you are a woman) about your situation long before you meet.
These are just a few of sticky sex situations that you must avoid at all costs in order to have a loving and fulfilling relationship. It is important to point out that some of these situations can easily damage your relationship, depending on how your partner perceives or reacts to them. Regardless of everything however, communication between you and your partner is always the best way to solving some of the situations.