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Can Sex Cause A Headache?

Although this is not a common situation, sex and orgasms can cause strong headaches and this is something that a lot of people can confirm.

There are some cases when sexual activity and/or orgasms can cause headache. This pain can be felt as a tension in the head and in the neck area and what is interesting is that this pain increases with the raise of sexual arousal and it turns into a sudden strong pain right before or after the orgasm. One in one hundred persons have experienced such pain at least once in their lifetime. According to some experts men are three times more likely to experience sexual headache compared to women which is surprising because speaking in general women are those who usually suffer from headaches. In most cases sexual headache doesn’t last long, although in rare cases it lasts more than several hours. This headache can occur during masturbation too. Sexual headaches are not harmful, but they are very often sign of some other bigger health problem, especially in people who feel headache after any physical activity.

Experts have determined two types of sexual headaches. The first one appears suddenly during orgasm or moments after an orgasm has been achieved. The pain is really strong and those who have experienced it compare this pain to stabbing in the head. This is the most common type of sexual headache. The second type is very rare and it starts as a mild pain that affects both sides of the head and this pain increases together with the raising of the sexual arousal. Most sexual headaches last very short, but there are some sexual headaches that last for several hours.

Sexual headaches can be caused by any sexual activity that leads to an orgasm. This means that besides regular vaginal sex, they can be cause by masturbation and even by oral sex too. Generally speaking, sexual activity increases blood pressure which leads to increased pressure in the head. In addition, sex causes muscle spasms and tension. In some cases this results in headaches caused by dilation of blood vessels in the head. Very often sexual headaches indicate bigger health problems like meningitis, tumor, aneurysm, risk of heart attack and other difficulties. Although these headaches don’t necessarily mean that you have some serious problem, it is always a good idea to visit your doctor. Sometimes the reasons for sexual headaches are certain birth control pills, anemia, inflammation of the sinuses, glaucoma or lack of sugar in the blood.

Sexual headaches are usually not a serious condition but visiting and consulting a doctor is highly recommended, this is especially useful in cases where these headaches appear constantly. If they are reappearing it’s better to lower your sexual activity until you get the results from your medical examination. If there is no serious reason behind these headaches your doctor will most probably recommend you similar therapies and remedies used for regular headaches – pills, low physical activity and resting.

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How To Make Him Reach Orgasm Faster?

There are some days when women are not in the mood for having a long sex or they are just tired of pleasing their men for a longer period. Luckily there are few things that women can do to help men reach orgasm faster.

First of all, you can use his foreskin in order to speed up things. If you gently pull the foreskin of his penis down, he will feel the stimulation in a much more intensive way. This will of course cause him to ejaculate much faster. Experienced men can always keep their ejaculation a little bit longer, especially if they are focused on satisfying their partner.

Have you ever heard about frenulum? The frenulum is by far the most sensitive part of the penis. The frenulum is actually the part of the penis just under the glans penis and you can easily spot it because it looks like a spot where the penis is pressed – like it has some kind of seam. You can certainly speed up the ejaculation if you properly stimulate this part of the penis. This can be achieved very easily if you use some kind of lubricant, which will dampen the dry skin. If you are practicing oral sex, use the tip of your tongue to tease the frenulum and if you use your hands and fingers, glide over that area with clenched fingers while gently stroking his penis. Make sure that the pressure you apply on the penis is not too strong, because too rough or too fast stroking can cause insensitivity or even some injuries. So this can cause a counter effect if you don’t do it properly.

Manual stimulation of the penis (or so-called handjob) is another way to help men reach orgasm faster. If you are getting ready to perform a massage like that make sure you apply oil on your hands and use your whole hand to pull the penis up and down. Remember that this massage must be performed gently and try to determine what kind of rhythm makes him more aroused. You can make a combination of this sexual stimulation with oral sex which can stimulate his penis even more. Don’t be carried away by this act because you can easily get injured (neck injuries).

Many men find female masturbation very attractive. So, don’t be shy and gently rub your nipples and vagina. This will instantly cause a reaction in your partner and he will most likely start to masturbate too. This is a great way to take a break if you are very tired.

Some men have a spot on the bottom of their penis, right under the testicles or in some cases near to the anus, which can intensify their feelings if it’s under pressure. If you know where that spot is find the right moment and press that spot when you think that he is near to the end. You can also combine this method with oral sex, but this is only possible for women that are very experienced.

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How To Reach Stunning Organisms While Enjoying Great Sex

When it comes to making love, people fail to understand that this is an art. As a man, if you want to have great sex, you must learn how to give your woman outstanding pleasure and see to it that every time you make love she may reach orgasm.

Now that you have sort your lady, it’s time we also took things up a notch and learnt how to turn our climax into an event that is spectacular. Having this thought in mind, below are two very amazing ways that when implemented will help any man enjoy mind blowing sex alongside his special lady…

Lengthen you Staying Power

Without flinching; statistics (alarming!) state that over 92% of men reach orgasm long before their lady is due. But what we have to discover is, every man has the ability of holding back and wait for their lady reach orgasm and afterwards turn his orgasm into a stronger, harder and very enjoyable ejaculation.

What or how is this possible?

For starters, you need to stop focusing on sensation which engulfs your genitalia as you two make love. Instead, you need to lay your focus on how pleasurable the act is and feel the sweetness in every fibre of your body.

If you feel that your orgasm is on its way, just stop for a minute or instead of drilling her, start thrusting nicer and slow. For the opportunist, this is the time you continue fondling your lady and giving her pleasurable oral sex.

As you pleasure her orally, your arousal will be lowered a few notches and you will be able to reach a point where you can start thrusting again. Continue repeating this process until when you arrive at a point where you feel it’s time to let go….

Hold Your Orgasm In

When you near the point of ejaculation, you will start feeling the involuntary contractions around the pelvic area. Before anything happens, start squeezing your PC muscle and as much as you can, try to hold off your ejaculation.

The PC muscle is the same that we all squeeze when we want to disrupt the flow of urine. After having reached an orgasm, and having held it back, when you are ready to release, it bursts forth in a mighty way and this is the instance that you’ll be able to enjoy extreme pleasure.

Strengthen the PC Muscle

If you want to be a stallion in the bedroom, you need to learn how to work your PC muscle. You should start by strengthening it. All you have to do is contract the PC muscles and hold for twenty seconds and release.

Repeat this process for five minutes continuously, once or three times a day and within no time you will have learnt how to hold your orgasm and deliver a sexual performance that is nothing else but Stella!!

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Frequency of sexual intercourses

There a lot of people who ask themselves if they are having too much sex or maybe they are having less sexual intercourses then the others. The frequency of sexual intercourses is always good if both partners are satisfied with it. This means that the frequency of sexual intercourse is not something that we should compare with other couples of individuals. Furthermore, you can’t find any strict guidance about how much sex is enough and that is exactly the beauty of sex – we are not following any rules and we should not feel it as some kind of everyday obligation.

However there are some numbers that are considered to be “normal”. The common frequency of sexual intercourse is around two to three times a week. However there are many people who practice sex even more. Some people are guided strictly by their own schedules while others enjoy spontaneous sex. If you are having sex less than two times a week this doesn’t mean that you are doing something wrong. If your partner is happy and you are happy and the whole sexual act is passionate then you don’t need to be worried about anything.  On the other hand if you feel bad about the infrequent sexual intercourses you should talk honestly about that with your partner.

People who practice only vaginal sex should know that they should be prepared to fewer orgasms compared to those who are ready to do some experiments like oral sex, masturbation or different types of sex games, because all these experiments can cause a lot more orgasms. This also means that the second group of people is most likely to have sex more frequently because of the bigger excitement.

You should always be open minded and seek your own sexual combination which depends on your reactions: if only one of you needs more sex, his or her needs can be satisfied with additional techniques and align those needs with your own.

Of course you should be aware that over the years the frequency decreases but there is no age in which you wouldn’t want to surprise yourself in some occasions. That’s why you should not feel miserable because of the frequency of your sexual intercourses and don’t worry if your friends tell you that they are having much more sex than you.

Remember that sex is not a game in which you have to collect points every time you have sex. You must be aware that there can be some periods in your life and in the life of your partner where you won’t feel the need of sex that much. There can be different causes for this situation but that doesn’t mean that you should put pressure on each other. Sexual drive is not something constant and that desire starts to fade with the years.

After all, the frequency of sexual intercourses is usually determined by the level of some chemical processes that take part in our bodies. That’s why, as the years go by, you should pay more attention on building a solid emotional connection with your partner in order to ignite sexual desire between the two of you.

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Sex Toy Pleasure Balls

Have you ever taken time to think over what the pleasure balls girls insert in themselves are for? Are the pleasure balls meant to make them feel more fulfilled while having sex? Well here is the truth:

The pleasure balls, which girls like inserting in themselves serve a variety of different sexual functions. For starters, pleasure balls, (Kegel Balls and Ben Wa Balls) are circular balls that are inserted in the vagina.

Mostly the balls are either one or two and have hollow chambers and on the inside have weighted balls. When the balls get shaken or stimulated by impact, the smaller weightier balls inside create vibrations.

When you take the sexual health perspective, you will understand that these balls (pleasure) are loved by women for their Kegel exercises practice.

Kegel Exercises, Whatever Do You Mean?

Kegel are muscular contraction exercises done by both men and women but for the women they help them in strengthening the pelvic floor muscles together with the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles. These exercise routines help women develop tight vaginas, help their bodies become more orgasmic and when they achieve orgasm it comes out stronger and extremely powerful.

Ben Wa Balls

When you look at these balls from a point of pleasure, you will see that they have been designed to help in the increased sensation inside the lady’s vagina and G-spot when sexing exercises go on. Foreplay moves such as; padding, spanking and flogging makes the balls provide desired pleasure.

There are other women who on the other hand enjoy the insertion and the removal and also the feeling of fullness inside their vaginas.

Men and Pleasure Balls

There is one problem that as men we always fail to understand, passion and sex, you might have mastered a lot of sexual routines and introduced these routines in your sexual escapades with your lady. As much as it is all good and dandy, there shall come a time when the sexual positions will become routine and somehow mundane for your woman.

Sad but true, so to help your woman always experience satisfaction every time you guys have sex, concentrate on the oral sex and not necessarily penetration. Having learnt the use of pleasure balls above, you are now in the perfect spot to help your woman experience orgasm and great orgasm that will make her open wider and invite you deep inside more.

Introduce the topic of pleasure balls and if she’s into it she start busing these balls to experience great and wonderful sexual sessions that will bring you two closer together than before!