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Something About Female Sexuality – Female Orgasm

Men should take comfort from the facts of female sexuality. It is difficult for most women to orgasm from intercourse alone, and yet amazingly few women ask about lack of orgasm. In addition to the obvious personal embarrassment, likely explanations include:

Not every woman is even interested in sex, either by masturbation or from a sexual relationship. Relatively few women masturbate, and so many women never know what an orgasm is. Some women assume that they orgasm during sex when, in fact, they don’t. Others accept that sex involves pleasing their man rather than looking for their own sexual pleasure.

The irony is that women who ask about lack of orgasm have the confidence to question because they have explored their sexuality more than most women, both with or without a partner. Regardless of her sexual expectations, any woman will offer her partner sex when she feels good about the relationship and loving towards her partner. They are looking for feeling of intimacy instead of orgasm, the cuddling or caress part maybe the best part in whole process of sexual intercourse for her.

After spending a romantic (affectionate and companionable) evening together, sharing emotional intimacy, or even after an emotional movie, a woman can feel amenable to having sex. Women just take longer time to warm up; compare to men, they can heat up in just split second.

However, these stimuli are very different from those she needs to achieve orgasm (sexual fantasies involve explicit eroticism). Unfortunately, Mother Nature does not favour about female orgasm. As long as a woman is amenable to having sex, the job is done!

Emotional intimacy

The film ‘Overboard’ stars Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell, her real-life partner. Goldie plays a spoilt rich young wife who loses her memory and, purely out of revenge, Kurt playing a lowly carpenter pretends that she is married to him, with his four children.

Sexual relationships favor male orgasm, and it is clear that he would have little problem having sex with this woman he hardly knows and even dislikes. It is equally clear that she would consider it out of the question to have sex with a man she cannot remember knowing.

“Men are most comfortable expressing love through sex, through shared activities, through being a good provider, and through just being together…”

Later in the story, they get to know each other and one evening, pretending that it is her birthday, they go out on a date. After dancing, they talk and gaze at the evening sky while romantic music plays. They kiss and, on returning home, ‘make love’ for the first time.

“98 percent of the women… said they would like more verbal closeness with the men they love; they want the men in their lives to talk more about their thoughts, emotions, plans, and to question them about theirs.”

The woman now feels affection for the man and finds him physically attractive. Of course, he always was attractive, but he suddenly appeals because she respects him and cares for him. Perhaps it is as self-evident to women that relationships are about companionship as it is to men that they are about physical intimacy. In fact, both are part of a long-term relationship.

How to Delay Ejaculation the Easy Way

Premature ejaculation is very common among men of various ages. If you do not take proper care of this condition, it can lead to an unpleasant sex life, not to mention the difficulties in relationships, lack of confidence, frustration and many other problems, none of which should be taken lightly. To have longer endurance in bed is the desire of all men, and the truth is that all the boys love to see their partner satisfied having one or more orgasms. When the desire is too much, trying to control yourself can be a difficult task, but not impossible. So, in this piece of article, we shall give you good tricks to learn how to delay ejaculation. Apply them at your next sexual encounter and leave her exhausted with full of pleasure.

Learn how ejaculation works

Men are learning techniques to delay premature ejaculation through experimentation. Instead of masturbating for a momentary pleasure, use this to take notice. Pay attention to how to enhance penis erection. There are four stages, very distinct, erection:

  1. Stretching and filling
  2. Swelling
  3. Full erection
  4. Rigid erection

Rigid erection is the last phase, characterized by hot and hard penis. This phase indicates that ejaculation is imminent. The goal is to take time to experience and teach oneself to remain in the previous stage (full erection) as long as possible. Once you move to the fourth stage, there is little you can do to delay ejaculation.

Practice will help you identify the steps and what you can do to delay ejaculation and hold rigid erection. This treatment of premature ejaculation is full of methods and techniques that you can apply while in Phase 3 (full erection). Such practices include breathing techniques, shallow penetration, distraction method “start-stop” and more.

Following are some of the important tips to help you delay the process of ejaculation:

  • Create a balance between the duration of foreplay and intercourse, when preliminary last too long and involve too many stimuli for you is likely to reach the orgasm faster, so concentrate on giving her pleasure while you enjoy seeing her squirm.
  • Use condoms with retardant effect, this is an excellent tool to delay ejaculation.
  • Change your position when you feel you are close to reaching an orgasm. There are certain positions that achieve orgasm too soon. The moment you feel you’re close to reaching climax, choose another position to prolong ejaculation.
  • Reduce the rate of penetration to calm the waters, many women like to do it slowly and that gives you the advantage of being able to control a little stimulation and delay ejaculation.
  • If you feel being close to climax and she still wants to enjoy more, remove your penis and encourage her with oral sex or stimulation that will take her to the summit of pleasure.
  • Remove the penis and gently press the tip (the glans) with your fingers, can also help you delay ejaculation.
  • Reduce anxiety and think of some things not as stimulants during sex are some of the strategies used by many to delay ejaculation.

Remember that sex should be a pleasure and enjoyable experience for both , so concentrate on giving maximum pleasure through games and stimuli and remember that sometimes the climax is very difficult to control, so not beat yourself up , and try again without pressure.