Erection is one of those things that we find very odd to explain. When you are able to have erection for a longer period then you feel happy and satisfied. But if there is a problem and you can’t make it last long or you even can’t get one, no matter how hard you try, that can be cause for some broader and more serious psychological issues.
In almost all cases, erection problems are started in our mind. The fastest way to if there is a serious problem in your mind is to self you can get erection while you are alone and you can’t get it if you are with your partner. That’s a clear sign of a psychological problem.
The reasons can be different – from using condoms and using the same sex routine to fear of failure or your lifestyle. It is very important to find the reason for this unpleasant situation in order to fix it faster. You need to do this faster because weak and short erection can cause a lot of trouble in the relationship. Women are very sensitive and they might think that they don’t attract you anymore which eventually lead to irritation and fighting.
No matter what the reason for your weaker and short erection is there are ways to make it last longer. These tips can help anyone if they are done properly and regularly.
First of all talking can help a lot. Feel free to tell your partner what do you like in bed and be a good listener and listen what she finds appealing. Don’t be afraid to talk about your fantasies or even use dirty talking during the sexual intercourse.
Since we’ve mentioned routine as one of the possible reasons for weak erection, sex innovation can be very helpful. Even if you don’t suffer from weak erection, changing the routine occasionally can bring those missing sparks in your bed and make the sex more enjoyable.
Regular exercising is good for your health in general and for your sexual life too. It will make you feel fit and healthy and it will help you with your blood flow and movement range which is very important for the sexual intercourse. The penis depends on the blood circulation and regular exercising will make it stronger.
Don’t think about your previous failures and concentrate on the future. What was done was done and it is time to show your partner that you can do better. After all anyone can fail in bed, it happens a lot. There are many reasons for that but the good thing is that you will have other chances.
Remember that sex is more than the act of penetration. Sex is much more and it starts with a long and sensual foreplay. You can please your partner in many ways so start with one thing and end with penetration. Just relax and enjoy the sex without thinking what could happen if you fail.