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Is There a Secret Formula to Determine the Right Time for Sex?

For every man and woman who are not into serious relationships, the dating scene is commonly seen as an arena where either you tame a lion or lose the lion.

There is a common question that every person in the dating game asks: “Where can I really take it to the next level? “Is it immediately after the first kiss? Do I have to wait two weeks to replenish the angelic taste of the heavens in the earth? Or is it too early for a steamy make-out session?” According to experts, there is no such thing as a formula for the right time to have sex.  However, you can time it perfectly.

The key for knowing when to step it up is to be patient, either you intended to plunge into a serious relationship, or just a short term sexual relationship. An early penetration to the sacred holy cave can lead to undesirable consequences, whether interfering emotional attachments or gaining physical burdens. A serious condition may even cause inability to maintain a hard erection. Of course they may also boost libido and sexual desire, give you the ‘sexifaction’.

In either party, it is possible that one may assume that sex implies a commitment, and you may not see it at that way. That’s why having an honest conversation with yourself is as important as discussing it with your partner. Everyone should know their boundaries before starting to date, either by physical or emotional boundaries.

It is imperative that you really want to rock the hell out with the attractive sexy body of your partner, but you need to make sure that your brain, heart, and sexual organ are ready. And even before reaching that point, think about your sexual boundaries even before you had that first drink.

Once you’ve decided your sexual boundaries, you need to “Christian Grey” up. You should be honest with your date, and you owe your partner regarding your intention. If it’s only a one-night stand, say it. It may not be always perceived goodly, but it will minimize future disappointments. And if you feel like you’re as sexy as Ms. Grey, then yeah, print a contract.

Being patient will also save you from later practical problems. We’re all aware of the spreading STD (sexually transmitted diseases) casualties and unwanted pregnancies, and by taking it slowly you are lowering your risks to face these unfortunate situations. If you and your partner have sufficient awareness regarding STDs and unwanted pregnancies, then it will indeed help to establish sexual boundaries. And we all know that creating those imaginary lines will help you in your sexual escapades.

Sex will indeed change things between two people. Nonetheless, having two bodies as one can incorporate future responsibilities. And that’s why determining the right time to have sex is very critical. Nonetheless, men and women can undeniably ignore the fact that sex is great, but we must be ready to face consequences.

In the end, the most important factor is to know your sexual boundaries, as discussing it prior to the big bang with your partner will lead to a better ending. Either intending to have a serious relationship or not, you need to be wise. And in these times, a bulky brain is better than a having or causing a bulky tummy.