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How to Determine Whether Your Partner has a Healthy Penis?

Penises come in different sizes, shapes and skin color which makes a little bit difficult to determine whether your partner is healthy down there or not. However there are few indicators that can help you get an answer to this question. They are not very complicated so in some cases you can directly ask your partner about them.

First of all, women often notice that in some cases the penis of their partner is harder and sometimes softer during the sexual intercourse. It is good to know that there are different levels of “hardness” in each penis and these levels are not associated with the intensity of excitement. The penis’ hardness can vary even during the same sex session depending on the time and the activities you are performing in the bed. If you feel that in the past few weeks his penis is a little bit softer all the time that can be a result of numerous factors like medications, stress and level of fatigue. As long as there is good penetration and you are both satisfied you don’t have to worry about anything.

Many women are confused because of the fact that some men have smooth penis while some of them have a hard penis with numerous veins. They simply don’t know what is normal. The truth is that there isn’t any standard. The thickness of the skin determines the look of the penis. It is natural to see more veins on the penis of a man who has thinner skin. You will notice only few veins in men who have thicker skin. Sometimes this appearance is closely related to the level of excitement. The blood vessels of the penis help achieve an hard erection and this is why they are more visible when a man is excited.

Another thing that is confusing for women is the size of the testicles and whether they need to be identical or not. According to many experts the size of the testicles should be similar to the size of a walnut in a shell. If they are smaller this usually indicated lower levels of testosterone which usually means that later in his life that man can experience some fertility problems. Furthermore, testicles should have the same size although having one testicle that is positioned slightly lower than the other one is very common among men. This doesn’t mean that something is wrong with their testicles.

In case you are wondering how many erections should a man have during one day the answer is simple – at least one. There is no exact number that can indicate that your partner is healthy. There are also cases when the penis gets hard without arousal. Very often men get erections even when they are not thinking about sex. The reason is increased blood flow. Most men have erections during the night when they are asleep and this doesn’t necessarily mean that they have wet dreams.

Nocturnal Ejaculation

Orgasm during sleep is often linked with teenagers but the truth is that this happens in older men too. There are few reasons for this interesting phenomenon.

When a child becomes a sexually mature person, he often begins to dream about so-called sexual fantasies/dreams. These fantasies are also called wet dreams and they are usually caused by daily experiences. The reasons can be various – a short erotic scene from a movie, a beautiful classmate, some attractive celebrity and even erotic literature. These things usually happen to teenagers that haven’t experienced sexual intercourse yet or teenagers who haven’t masturbated yet. This is a completely natural teenage phenomenon that can occur in some teenagers and it is not a reason for being worried. Nocturnal ejaculations usually start around the age of 14. In rare cases, children that are twelve or thirteen years old can experience these nocturnal ejaculations too. Of course many male teenagers never experience this phenomenon. It’s good to know that this is happening randomly and there are no rules about it. Parents should remember that there is nothing wrong about nocturnal ejaculation.

So, how exactly these wet dreams that cause nocturnal ejaculation look like? These are dreams in which men dream about certain sights, events and happenings that they link with their sexual desires. While they are awake all these desires are pushed into the subconscious. Some experts say that men push these desires because they are afraid or ashamed of them and that’s the reason why they are so realistic in the dreams. It looks like a good psychiatrist like Freud could explain all these things. This legendary scientist linked all dreams with sexuality, especially when it came to the so-called hidden sexual dreams that contain various sexual symbols. According to him, female genitals often occur in the shape of vase, box, room or gardens while male genitals in the form of dagger, snake, stick while the sexual act can appear as a ride with a car or something similar. All these hidden sexual symbols can tell a lot about the person that is dreaming but that’s another topic.

What is interesting about nocturnal ejaculation is that this phenomenon can happen in older men too. It is usually happening in men that irregularly satisfy their sexual needs or this may be a reflection of their inability to satisfy some strong sexual desire because they are afraid or unable to do it. In many cases we are talking about certain sexual deviation that is not acceptable for the society but the individual still fantasizes about it. These dreams that cause nocturnal ejaculation can be about sexual deviance, perversion and about satisfying sexual desire in an strange, unusual and unacceptable way. Of course these are only some of the cases. The reason might be a simple erotic fantasy that can cause arousal even when we are awake.

Nocturnal ejaculation can be described as a subconscious sexual self-satisfaction that doesn’t affect the male sexual power in the waking state.