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A Woman’s Survival Guide to Talking About Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation can be devastating for men afflicted with the condition, but thankfully society has become more accepting and understanding. With so many products out there, men finally have options to help. If you are a man, and you suffer from premature ejaculation the prognosis is hopeful. For the partners of men with premature ejaculation, it can still be incredibly frustrating. Women can feel trapped and at a loss of how to approach or deal with the problem. Some men just don’t want to face the reality, some don’t consider it a problem and even with treatments- progress doesn’t happen overnight. So how do you deal with the effects premature ejaculation has on you, the one who is afflicted- but affected just the same? With some communication you can make a major difference in making changes.

Don’t Get Angry

The most important thing to remember, and this goes for any situation you are in with PE, is that you need to be supportive. Of course, it’s frustrating for you and it is so easy to get caught up in the selfish thoughts that can come as a knee-jerk reaction. However, you have to fight past that and remember that your commitment to each other means that you are supposed to support each other. If you can support him through any other situation, why not PE?

Timing is Everything

It is critical that you approach with caution and handle with kid gloves when broaching the subject to your partner. Deep inside, he is already aware there is a problem; and it is likely eating him up inside. It is a crushing blow to the male ego, and can make any man feel like a failure and less of a man. Time your approach gracefully, how he reacts to the conversation can be greatly affected by the timing. Certainly, you shouldn’t bring it up before, during or after sex. Like any uncomfortable topic, don’t wait til an argument to bring it up, and it will blow up in your face. Make him his favorite dinner, bring him a beer and ask him about his day or even just a shared movie night.  I’m not trying to tell women, “Get back in the kitchen!” rather, showing these gestures will put him at ease and set his mind in the mode of realizing how grateful he is for you and what you do.

Having the Talk

Here is the hard part, actually bringing up one of the most difficult topics most couples ever have. As with any criticism, or uncomfortable feedback you have to give anyone there are some tricks to make it more palatable. A great technique is one of the oldest, sandwiching the feedback to soften the blow. The way this works is the say something positive or uplifting about him, gently lead into the feedback and close with another positive affirmation. Some examples are:

  • Our relationship is so amazing, you are considerate and so supportive.
  • I feel like you would do anything for me.
  • I love that we can talk openly with each other.
  • Nothing makes me happier than curling up with you at the end of the day.

Now you can bring up the rough stuff; the actual problem. This is a very delicate matter, so remember that this is meant to help both of you- a vested interest can greatly help keep you in the proper mindset. Secondly, don’t place blame. He doesn’t mean to have this problem, no man asks for it. You can ease into the conversation by softly curving into it. Perhaps you can ask if anything has been bothering him or having any stress; seeing how he is feeling physically is great too. Premature ejaculation can be caused by mental and physical means, understanding which the case is will speed up the process. Remind him that sex is something you share together, and you want it to be as fulfilling as possible for both of you. If he feels your motivations are selfish, he will shut down or even get upset. Be patient and let him talk through the process and get to a comfortable place. Once the topic is on the table, you can finally work towards solving the problem.

PE is frustrating for both partners, and has driven a wedge between many couples. Don’t wait for him to bring it up, enable him to seek help. Knowing that there is no pressure or blame, and that you want to help him- not judge him, will make him more receptive to your help.

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How premature ejaculation affects female satisfaction

Every man has gone through a moment or two in his sexual life where he suffer from premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. Most research and studies conducted on both of these diseases have centered on how it affects the male sex. However, women are also dramatically affected by these sexual dysfunctions. Let’s take a deeper look into how sexual dysfunction on the male side actual affects the life of his female counterpart.

Psychologically

Women are emotional creatures and are heavily dictated by what their partner thinks about them. When it comes to bedroom women are even more sensitive. They want to satisfy their partner and want them to enjoy sex but when a man reaches orgasm too quickly many females believe it is their fault. Even though this is faulty reasoning many women continue to believe this and therefore develop a complex further complicating their sexual relationship.

Sexually

Women require intellectual stimulation and an emotional connection in order to reach orgasm while men are strictly focused on the physical attributes of their partner. This means it may take a woman longer to reach an orgasm than a man. Of course, if a man has an issue with premature ejaculation or even erectile dysfunction it can have drastic effects on sexual satisfaction for a woman.

All Hope is not lost

From medications to therapy, men have hundreds of options available to them to reverse the situation and improve their sexual relationships. Women are also much more forgiving than many men believe which allows them to be open about things in the bedroom. Confidence and communication will create the environment that a man needs to thrive in the bedroom. Also, often times these problems can be psychological or simply caused by focusing too much on the issue. Instead of focusing on what’s wrong with his skills in the bedroom if a man focuses on what is going right chances are premature ejaculation will not become a problem later on.

What women Want

As long as a man is caring, affectionate, and attentive during sex a woman will not be concerned with how long he lasts. Sexual intimacy is centered on a caring relationship and if a woman feels like she is being cared for she will be sexually satisfied.

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Ways to Cure Impotent

If you are concerned of becoming impotent as you grow older, you should stop worrying and put a smile on your face, we are about to put your worries about impotent to rest. It’s not written anywhere that as you grow older, you have to expense your sex life.

Impotent also known as loss and lack of sex drive often occurs in 50% of men and 30% of women as they age. However, there is a common myth that goes round which purports that impotent is another unavoidable part of aging, no it’s NOT!

The truth is, the foods we eat highly affect our bodies entirely and that means our sexual health as well. The average Western World diet is ridiculous rich in artery clogging foods that lessen sexual function and are known for boosting health reproductive complications including ovarian and prostate cancer.

The modern processed diets we consume wholly makes many become impotent thus presenting a threat to health and vitality. Fortunately, we have nabbed three main perpetrators that threaten sexual vitality and are known to be major causes for impotent.

Meats

For healthy, vigorous energy flow during a love making session, every partner needs to eat in accordance to their natural body types. Science has it that the energetic qualities of nutrition play an important role in the nutrition by upholding a healthy balance between female and male energies.

A diet that is high in inundated fats makes the body lose its flexibility and will more than likely block the energy flow into reproductive organs thus causing the make to suffer from premature ejaculations. Unfortunately in the modern times we live in, excess beef and chicken are meals that are responsible for creation of overly contracted denser and harder bodies.

These foods cause energy flow through the now tight bodies to block and finally individuals end up being impotent or frigid. Women that have natural soft bodies will end up being less sensitive to coitus and for their counterparts (muscular men) their bodies harden up and they encounter premature ejaculation.

Dairy Products

A majority of dairy products consumed by humans, have a proper nutrition that is required for a developing calf, however, the nutrition is not good for human ingestion. Other than the colossal amount of saturated fats, dairy products upsets the body’s natural balance.

Soft dairy products especially ice cream make men’s hard bodies soft and this grossly affects the sex drive. Moreover, artificial high oestrogen levels in the modern dairy products hamper hormone balance and are responsible for affecting the sexual functions in both women and men.

Refined Sugars

Refined sugars weaken immune systems and are known to create a disease friendly environment in the human body. Refined sugars also block sex drive. Unfortunately, men that consume loads of refined sugar will more than likely have problems maintain an erection.

Women who ingest high levels of refined sugars will on the other hand find it extremely hard to experience orgasm.

Caution

As much as the idea of popping pills or resulting to surgical procedures to treat sexual dysfunction such as premature ejaculation and impotent, the results is not only ineffective, they are non-long lasting as well.

It gets worse, these approaches can cause your kidneys to weaken and your reproductive organs in the whole run will deplete your sex drive way further. If you want to recover from impotence, a wholefood diet comprised of cooked whole grains, veggies is a natural and critical ways which you can use in regaining the pleasures of intimacy again!