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Types of orgasms and their importance

Except for a small number of women, almost every woman can experience clitoral orgasm. But many women wonder if this “rule” applies for vaginal orgasms too.

Many experts are having a dilemma when they are trying to answer the question how women reach orgasm – clitoral or vaginal? One thing is for sure, women that are interested in their clitoris won’t experience the joy that brings vaginal orgasm when they are still virgins. The practice of masturbation only strengthens the belief that the orgasm is actually clitoral in its core. Except for specific cases, every woman can reach orgasm with proper stimulation. Given the fact that every woman can reach clitoral orgasm, it is not a good idea to separate women in two categories – those who can reach clitoral orgasm and those who can reach vaginal orgasm. Without proper orgasm may be sexual dysfunction.

The truth is that some women cannot reach vaginal orgasm along with clitoral orgasm. According to many studies, most women have never experienced vaginal orgasm. However, it is impossible to determine if they would be able to reach it if they have another partner. Since the discovery of the so-called G spot, it is considered that the orgasm that is called vaginal is actually closely linked with the stimulation of the G spot. We have mentioned before that every woman can reach clitoral orgasm, but what about women who have their clitoris removed (due to certain religious beliefs)? They are able to achieve orgasm too and it looks like this is the purest form of vaginal orgasm.

The inability to reach any type of orgasm can be viewed as pathological case. Every woman should be able to reach clitoral orgasm. If she is unable to experience that feeling (no matter who is responsible for that (her partner with his bad approach or she is having some difficulties even when she is masturbating) the fact is that she will be irritated and tensed which surely leads to many problems in the relationship. However, not every woman takes orgasms so seriously. Some of them (mostly because of their sentimental nature) give advantage to cuddling and tenderness before the activities that have pure sexual value. They simply enjoy the sexual intercourse from the beginning to the end without focusing on reaching orgasm. In many cases they are even faking an orgasm in order to please their partners. If you are not able to give your female partner orgasm, you may need to improve sexual performance.

When we talk about simultaneous orgasms we must admit that this type of orgasms in which both partner reach the peak of the sexual intercourse at the same time can increase the pleasure. This is not a simple task because men need to restrain themselves while women have to find the right position. During the whole sexual intercourse both partners need to be focused and “read” the signals from the other partner. If you are unable to reach simultaneous orgasm don’t be disappointed because other forms of orgasms can be exciting too.

When we talk about orgasms it is good to know that there is a significant difference between male and female orgasms. Orgasms in men last shorter, men usually don’t have problems reaching orgasms and they know only one type of orgasm.

Why Is Female Masturbation Good For The Health?

Have you noticed that when you read about masturbation it is usually about male masturbation? Female masturbation is still considered to be a taboo but in the recent years there were several studies that came to a conclusion that female masturbation affects health in a positive way. So besides regular sex, occasional masturbation can be beneficial for women. These are some of effects of female masturbation:

–      Cardiovascular system and diabetes

Recent researches have proven that female orgasms strengthen the resistance of female bodies to cardiovascular disease and diabetes. Of course these orgasms can be achieved by having sex with a partner but they can also be achieved with masturbation (especially if the woman doesn’t have a partner).

–      Infections

Masturbation is also very helpful when it comes to infections. It is good for both infections of the cervix and against urinary tract infections. It is a well known fact that masturbation lowers the risk of prostate cancer in men and recent studies have shown that masturbation practiced by women can lower the risk of cervical cancer. Once again the main reason for this is the orgasm itself, because it opens up the uterus and encourages production and distribution of so-called good bacteria in that area. Masturbation can also be useful in cases of urinary tract infections because it eases the pain which is a common thing in these infections. Besides that it helps the process of ejection of old and useless bacteria.

–      Pelvic

Masturbation, or orgasms to be more precise, strengthens the bottom of the pelvic which is especially important for women who have given birth. Throughout masturbation, and especially when the masturbation gets to the climax (orgasm), comes to muscle contractions and accelerated blood flow. All these things have great effects on the consolidation of the pelvic floor that leads to increased sexual pleasure and desire too.

–      Sleeping

Masturbation requires some energy and that is why many women (even without doing that intentionally) start masturbating after a long and busy day at work because that gives them a sense of relaxation and it helps them sleep faster and tighter. It is a known fact that masturbation encourages the release of dopamine in the body and those levels are at their maximum before the orgasm occurs. After the orgasm is achieved, oxytocin and endorphins are released that gives a feeling of calmness and warmth in every woman. Because of this feeling it is much easier for the woman to go to bed and sleep without having any problems.

–      Relaxation and mood

With the help of the hormones that are released during masturbation, the female body successfully fights the symptoms caused by stress. Hormones that lead to depression and bad moods are replaced with other hormones that bring happiness and calmness. Few researches have proven that masturbation drastically reduces emotional stress and this is very important because this stress is a direct cause of many diseases. Another research has shown that masturbation can remove bad mood instantly.