Except for a small number of women, almost every woman can experience clitoral orgasm. But many women wonder if this “rule” applies for vaginal orgasms too.
Many experts are having a dilemma when they are trying to answer the question how women reach orgasm – clitoral or vaginal? One thing is for sure, women that are interested in their clitoris won’t experience the joy that brings vaginal orgasm when they are still virgins. The practice of masturbation only strengthens the belief that the orgasm is actually clitoral in its core. Except for specific cases, every woman can reach orgasm with proper stimulation. Given the fact that every woman can reach clitoral orgasm, it is not a good idea to separate women in two categories – those who can reach clitoral orgasm and those who can reach vaginal orgasm. Without proper orgasm may be sexual dysfunction.
The truth is that some women cannot reach vaginal orgasm along with clitoral orgasm. According to many studies, most women have never experienced vaginal orgasm. However, it is impossible to determine if they would be able to reach it if they have another partner. Since the discovery of the so-called G spot, it is considered that the orgasm that is called vaginal is actually closely linked with the stimulation of the G spot. We have mentioned before that every woman can reach clitoral orgasm, but what about women who have their clitoris removed (due to certain religious beliefs)? They are able to achieve orgasm too and it looks like this is the purest form of vaginal orgasm.
The inability to reach any type of orgasm can be viewed as pathological case. Every woman should be able to reach clitoral orgasm. If she is unable to experience that feeling (no matter who is responsible for that (her partner with his bad approach or she is having some difficulties even when she is masturbating) the fact is that she will be irritated and tensed which surely leads to many problems in the relationship. However, not every woman takes orgasms so seriously. Some of them (mostly because of their sentimental nature) give advantage to cuddling and tenderness before the activities that have pure sexual value. They simply enjoy the sexual intercourse from the beginning to the end without focusing on reaching orgasm. In many cases they are even faking an orgasm in order to please their partners. If you are not able to give your female partner orgasm, you may need to improve sexual performance.
When we talk about simultaneous orgasms we must admit that this type of orgasms in which both partner reach the peak of the sexual intercourse at the same time can increase the pleasure. This is not a simple task because men need to restrain themselves while women have to find the right position. During the whole sexual intercourse both partners need to be focused and “read” the signals from the other partner. If you are unable to reach simultaneous orgasm don’t be disappointed because other forms of orgasms can be exciting too.
When we talk about orgasms it is good to know that there is a significant difference between male and female orgasms. Orgasms in men last shorter, men usually don’t have problems reaching orgasms and they know only one type of orgasm.