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Sex Games

It is not far-fetched these days to hear couples complain of having a boring sexual life. Couples and those in relationships complain of their partner’s infidelity, while some will always use the sentence “it used to be interesting before but all of a sudden, it is now as boring as watching two old people quarrel”. It is never easy to keep the rush of sexual pleasure every night. You may be pondering upon the phrase “boring sexual life”, it definitely means no foreplay, and paying less attention to the mental and psychological state of your partner, all you just want to do is have sex with her and get done with without even thinking of making memory with it.

Sex is repetitive most times. In carrying out sexual activities, the brain is the biggest sex organ as it must be stimulated so as to get the best out of the intercourse. If the brain is stimulated, then your partner will become hornier, then you can enjoy and at the same time create wonderful experience together.

Sex games triggers the excitement that lies ahead in sex. If your sex partner is not your enemy which he or she will definitely never be, then playing games will definitely heighten the pleasure in sexuality. There are different games that must be considered if you want to take your sex life to another level. Role playing; In this type of game, both partners adopt different roles and acts as strangers. They act out unscripted roles and adopts the use of raunchy and kinky languages which is directly stimulating their psychology and getting them ready for intercourse.

Another game that can be played by couples or sexual partners is Reenacting Pornography. In reenacting pornography, both of them may be on the bed or couch or anywhere they feel they are comfortable in. They watch some pornography movies together and act or do as it is being done on set. This may be difficult because those actors are paid and trained to do just that, but when couples watch it, they carry out some of the styles and even laugh over it.

Another sex games that increases sensation in the body of your partner is the blindfold game. In this type of game, one of the partner is being blind folded and the other that is not on blindfold has the luxury of exploiting the partners body. This will send better sensation than when the eyes are being open because the partner cannot predict where will be touched which sends sensations all through the body.

Another game that may be considered by couples who want to enjoy sex once again is the truth or dare. Truth or dare is a game that involves spinning bottle in between the partners, and the partner the bottle will spin towards will be asked to do some things which should be romantic, from taking of clothes, panties and other romantic things that could be thought of.

The major reason sex game is important in relationship is because it builds up sexual pressure which leads to the act itself.

7 Healthy Reasons to Have Sex

We think about sex. We fantasize about sex. We spend an inordinate amount of time and money in the pursuit for sex. We have sex. Pleasure is not the only benefit we get underneath the sheet. The mental and physical benefits of a healthy sex life extend far beyond the bedroom. Researchers, scientists, and medical professionals have made it their mission to study exactly how sex improves nearly every facet of life. So, let’s check out some healthy reasons to have sex regularly:

 

Improved Heart Health and Exercise

Sex can strengthen muscle tone and also increase heart rate. Just like any physical exercise, healthy sex is good for your heart. A study published in January 2015 in the “American Journal of Cardiology” found that men who had sex twice weekly or more had less risk of cardiovascular diseases, like strokes or heart attack, than those who had sex once a month or less. Similarly, sex can actually be considered a rather good form of exercise :A small study published in October 2013 in the “Journal PLoS One” showed that men burned an average of 4 calories a minute during sex while  women burned off 3 calories. That is more fun than hitting the gym

 

Sweet Pain Relief

According to researchers “Pain sometimes has to do with blood flowing to one particular area, like the head, and sex can take some of that pressure off by redirecting the flow”. Endorphins released during orgasm likely play a role in sex pain-relieving power. In another study published in PLoS One that was performed at Stanford University in California, anesthesiologists showed participants photos their romantic partners. They found that looking at romantic partners significantly eradicates the experience of pain. Although, you might think pain is a barrier to sex; consider this a sex benefit worth the time and effort. Other studies have found that women may get some relief from menstrual cramps through an intense orgasm.

 

Less Stress and Lower Body Pressure

Sex can help relieve stress by raising endorphins and other hormones that boost mood. As a form of exercise, it can also help calm you down. In addition, a Scottish study published in the journal _Biological Psychology_ found that sexual activity prevents increases in blood pressure during stressful events. While this effect was more pronounced in people who had sex with penetration, non-penetrative sex can also help you stay unclouded.

 

Possible Reduction of Prostate Cancer

Sex may protect against cancer. A study published in December 2016 in the journal _European Urology_ found that men who ejaculate more than 21 times within a month, compared with those who do so four to seven times within a month, are 20 percent less likely to develop prostate cancer, this shows that men who ejaculate regularly may reduce their risk of prostate cancer. Similarly, a French study found that women who have sex at least once in a month are less likely to develop breast cancer than those who didn’t. Although the disease is rare in men, those who orgasm less than six times a month appear to be at increased risk of breast cancer compared to those who do so more often, according to a Greek study.

 

Better Sleep with a Bonus: Increased Sexual Desire

Do you know that orgasms will help to release hormone prolactin that let you feels sleepy and relaxed? It’s from National Sleep Foundation. Don’t be angry with your partner that they fall asleep after an exciting session. This sleep connection also works in reverse. According to a study published in May 2015 in the Journal of Sexual Medicine getting enough shut-eye can improve your sexual response and may increase the chance that you will engage regularly in sex. Researchers discovered that when women slept for longer period of time, they recovered greater sexual desire the next day.

 

Happier Mood and a Stronger Relationship

Oxytocin, also known as the love hormone, is released during physical intimacy and skin-to-skin contact; it can help increase romantic feelings between you and your partner. It is no wonder that you have got a more positive outlook after sex. There are biochemical rationales for experiencing improved mood as a sex benefit, from the neurotransmitters that may be released during sex to the mood enhancers contained in semen itself. According to Dr. Caron, “there is a lot to be said simply for the mood-boosting effect of having a nice connection with somebody that you trust and care about. In addition, researchers found that partners were satisfied for a full 48 hours after sexual activity, and those who were lucky enough to experience this afterglow went on to report more happiness in their relationship several months later.

 

Glowing Younger -Looking Skin

The fable “morning after” glow is not just your imagination; you really do look better after having sex. According to Dr. Caron, “Sex even helps you look younger”, that glow can be attributed to a combination of stress relief, better mood, and the flush of blood under your skin is a natural part of the arousal process. Sex boosts blood flow and helps regulate hormones, which can both have positive effects on skin’s appearance

Enjoying a better sex life is one of the great joys in life. Intimacy is a boost to your long term health as well, make it more pleasurable.