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Understanding Female Orgasm Difficulties

Many women cannot reach orgasm because of the simple fact that they don’t know what causes excitement in them. Despite the fact that modern women are fully sexually emancipated, many women still have trouble reaching proper orgasm. This condition is often medically described as anorgasmia and the reasons that lead to this state are virtually endless. The two main types of anorgasmic causes are physical and psychological causes. In this article we will try to talk about a cause that can be listed in both categories. With all those psychological and health causes there is a possibility that women cannot reach orgasm because they simply don’t know what turns them on. The reason behind this is their prejudices regarding sex or maybe they have not explored their body in a proper way yet.

A woman can become a good doctor for her own body if she finds the necessary time and courage to explore her own body and the reaction of the body to different types of stimulations. Of course, you can always consult your doctor but if you are already looking for help from qualified individuals then it is better to consult a sex therapist or a sexologist. These experts can lead individuals step by step until they reach their final goal. Of course, this means that women might have to answer some straightforward and unpleasant questions that need completely honest answers but this is the only for the expert to explore his patient’s sexuality. Sex therapist very often stand up for masturbation because one of the biggest advantages of masturbation is that the person practicing it will explore her body. Another specialist that can help you with this process is a bioenergetic therapist.

In order for one individual to get familiar with all the properties of sexuality he or she must explore the body in details, especially how the body reacts onerotic stimulations. Women can determine this by testing if they test which type of stimulation suits them the best – clitoral, vaginal stimulation or maybe direct penetration in the vagina. Some women need two types of stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. Some women need long foreplay while others find long foreplay boring and useless. Sex therapist suggest that women should explore their vaginas in details without any embarrassment. They can even masturbate in front of a mirror in order to see how the vagina reacts on different stimulations. A lot of celebrities are encouraging women to explore their bodies and love their reproductive system.

Finally, every woman should talk with her partner about the things that she finds stimulating. She should also talk about the things that make her reach an orgasm fast. In this way you can make the shyness, fears and all the unpleasant feelings that burden your sexuality go away. In these cases it is good to have a partner that knows when he needs to listen and a partner who is ready to explore your sexuality with your help.

How To Prevent Premature Orgasm?

Many men have experienced this embarrassing situation when they reach orgasm before their partner. Although this is not necessarily a bad thing there are few thing that can help men prevent premature orgasm and extend the sexual act. In another word, premature orgasm is commonly call as premature ejaculation.

Just like women, men find some sex positions more exciting than others. This means that in certain positions they are able to reach orgasm very fast. Of course, this doesn’t mean that the position that his favorite for a certain man is necessarily the position in which he will have the most trouble to prevent premature orgasm. According to many experts, men usually have trouble stopping their orgasm when a woman is on top of them, because she is able to completely control the depth and the rhythm of penetration which means that men have absolutely no control over their orgasm. The only thing that a man can do in situations like these is to ask or make some other signal so the woman can stop. A better option for those who deal with premature orgasm is to take their partner and place her in the position that suits them best – a position in which they are in control. Although many women like to be on top, don’t be afraid of her reaction because women also like changes. Of course, be careful that these changes don’t take place right before she reaches an orgasm. Men, who know well their partners, usually know when their partners are getting near to an orgasm so they can easily synch with their orgasm. They can simply intensify the sex act when they are near an orgasm and perform the movements that arouse the partner so they can experience a simultaneous orgasm.

If you are looking for a change, you should certainly try the classical doggie style. In this position the woman crouches on all fours (hands and knees) while the man is on his knees behind her and has complete control of the sex act. This is most certainly the best way to delay your orgasm. This position requires more energy and activity and unlike the position where the woman is on top of you, you won’t be able to reach an orgasm so quickly.  Many men think that they cannot postpone their orgasm and they hurry to finish once they feel they are reaching an orgasm. That’s wrong and you should know that if you are enjoying the sexual intercourse at the moment you should slow down a little bit and continue when you feel like you are ready to intensify the activity again. Keep in mind that the sex act is perfect only when the two partners participating in it reach an orgasm.

Another sex position that is very popular is the so-called missionary position because the partners are very close to each other. But this closeness can also bring trouble to some men because the constant kissing and the pressure that they feel from the vagina can make them reach orgasm in a record time. Placing the hands under their bodies can help men lower the pressure and postpone their orgasm.

How To Reach Stunning Organisms While Enjoying Great Sex

When it comes to making love, people fail to understand that this is an art. As a man, if you want to have great sex, you must learn how to give your woman outstanding pleasure and see to it that every time you make love she may reach orgasm.

Now that you have sort your lady, it’s time we also took things up a notch and learnt how to turn our climax into an event that is spectacular. Having this thought in mind, below are two very amazing ways that when implemented will help any man enjoy mind blowing sex alongside his special lady…

 

Lengthen you Staying Power

Without flinching; statistics (alarming!) state that over 92% of men reach orgasm long before their lady is due. But what we have to discover is, every man has the ability of holding back and wait for their lady reach orgasm and afterwards turn his orgasm into a stronger, harder and very enjoyable ejaculation.

What or how is this possible?

For starters, you need to stop focusing on sensation which engulfs your genitalia as you two make love. Instead, you need to lay your focus on how pleasurable the act is and feel the sweetness in every fibre of your body.

If you feel that your orgasm is on its way, just stop for a minute or instead of drilling her, start thrusting nicer and slow. For the opportunist, this is the time you continue fondling your lady and giving her pleasurable oral sex.

As you pleasure her orally, your arousal will be lowered a few notches and you will be able to reach a point where you can start thrusting again. Continue repeating this process until when you arrive at a point where you feel it’s time to let go….

 

Hold Your Orgasm In

When you near the point of ejaculation, you will start feeling the involuntary contractions around the pelvic area. Before anything happens, start squeezing your PC muscle and as much as you can, try to hold off your ejaculation.

The PC muscle is the same that we all squeeze when we want to disrupt the flow of urine. After having reached an orgasm, and having held it back, when you are ready to release, it bursts forth in a mighty way and this is the instance that you’ll be able to enjoy extreme pleasure.

 

Strengthen the PC Muscle

If you want to be a stallion in the bedroom, you need to learn how to work your PC muscle. You should start by strengthening it. All you have to do is contract the PC muscles and hold for twenty seconds and release.

Repeat this process for five minutes continuously, once or three times a day and within no time you will have learnt how to hold your orgasm and deliver a sexual performance that is nothing else but Stella!!

Sex Tips for Lasting Longer in Bed

A clear definition of premature ejaculation is: an act to reach orgasm the instance you penetrate, begin thrusting and you immediately cum without having scheduled or set your mind that you are about to orgasm.

As you will come to learn; every time you are engaging in sexual activity, you need to remember you are the person that is in control and it is only you who is able to plan, monitor and be in a position where you control your orgasm reaching the peak point where you are ready to burst.

 

Lasting Longer

During our teenage days extending to early youth years, our hormones made it very difficult not to get too excited and our excitement was too much that our emotions run amuck. Immediately after reaching the peak point of losing control of our emotions then it’s just a matter of time that we lose the race.

First and foremost, since we have established that emotions make us cum to early, the most critical thing to do here is be in control of our emotions, but this is something that is way much easily said than it gets done. Let’s look at a few ways we can keep our emotions in check and lasting longer in bed.

 

The Pre-Fire

It is common knowledge that a higher percentage of men last longer during sexual intercourse the second time round that we did the first time. If you are a fellow that is able to regain their hard on quickly, the best thing is to take advantage of this point and start off your sexual spree by pre-firing.

Thankfully, pre-firing is something that you can do on your own or with a lady friend. Many that suffering from premature ejaculation have perfected the art of pre-firing before they engage in an encounter with their lady.

For guys that are able to pre-fire without too much effort, as you engage in foreplay it is possible to rub one out as you tune your lady friend and the chance you regain your sexual energy, you will ride her like a horse!

Note: never try rushing or will yourself to reload. The best thing to do is relax, forget about the act and concentrate on entertaining your lady friend and within a very short period of time, things will span out naturally.

 

Condoms A Gift To Manhood

Condoms are a great feature that help many men last longer in bed. That said however, double bagging is a serious no, no. double bagging actually increases premature ejaculation and you will have no need of using them anyway.

Get yourself a numbing lube, however, make sure that the lube goes on the inside of the condom. But this is only a short term solution as it will wear out as soon as you start using it.

The lube will give you a short time solution and bang your lady friend’s brains out, since you will not be aroused. The instance the lube wears off, you will now have the chance to finish.

Why Is Masturbation Exercise Good For Our Health?

Throughout the history masturbation was considered to be wrong. It was usually described as something sinful and morally wrong. Modern society has slowly changed its view on masturbation and although it remains a taboo there are a lot of researches that are conducted and that prove that practicing masturbation is good for human health.

In the moment when some person experiences orgasm, the body is filled hormones and substances that make that person feel good and happy, and those substances can also improve the general health. We all know how healthy is to practice sex with another person, but having solo sex can also be beneficial for many aspects of human health.

  1. Masturbation exercise enhances immune system. During the orgasm among many hormones that are released there is one hormone called Oxytocin that helps white blood cells to fight infections in a better and more efficient way. According to some studies, women that have higher levels of Oxytocin in their bodies are dealing with their period much easier. It is also helpful for menstrual cramps and other types of pain.
  2. No matter how you achieve an orgasm, it is always useful when it comes to stress. Stress is number one factor for many diseases and by practicing masturbation you will feel relaxed and calm.
  3. Consider masturbation as a form of exercise. With the help of masturbation you can burn calories and fat. Keep in mind that having sex with a partner requires much more physical activity but masturbation can still be helpful because of all the muscles that are active during the process, increased blood flow and faster breathing. It sounds like a good cardiovascular exercise right?
  4. Some people are afraid of having sex because of the risk that it brings – all types of diseases or the chance of conception even though they use protection. Abstinence can help with that problem but the sex drive can’t be surprised for a long time. Masturbation is probably the safest method to achieve orgasm and have something close to actual sex without worrying about the things mentioned before.
  5. The best way to improve your sexual techniques is to explore your body to the fullest extent. And it looks like there is no better way to do it other than masturbation. Masturbation allows you to explore your erogenous zones and find out what turns you on and what gives you pleasure. This experimentation with your own body will eventually lead to having more pleasure when you have intercourse with your partner and you will feel more confident once you know yourself.
  6. There are many people, especially women, who can’t reach orgasm with their sexual partners. The reasons can be different – traumatic experience from the past, medical conditions, orgasmic dysfunctions etc. Whatever the reason is, these people can reach orgasm much easier if they rely on masturbation. Personal stimulation may allow the body to be more sensitive to sexual contact with others.