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Moves to Try During Foreplay to Make Her Desire You Again And Again

What are some great sexy things to try during foreplay? After all, most women crave a lot more foreplay. Some women even like receiving foreplay more than intercourse.

After some years in a sexual relationships, sex usually becomes a bit routine. Do you do the same old sex routine of a kiss, touch the breasts and intercourse every time you make love? If you do, it is likely that your lover is bored with sex. She could even be faking her orgasms.

WARNING: Boring sex leads to separation.

So we can see that most of us need some new things to try in foreplay. The first thing to try is even before foreplay starts. You can send her a flirt text message during the day. See how she responds. If you can feel she is getting sensual, ramp up the messages by becoming dirty. One just has to describe to her what you want to do later that night.

The next suggestion is very powerful. Ask her to sit opposite you. Ask her to shut her eyes for a minute or so. Now suggest that she thinks of a time when she was loved in the past. Feel the love in the body. You can shut your eyes too and feel. Now ask her to feel back into the past when she loved someone.

Tell her to slowly open her eyes and make eye contact with you, when you are making eye contact; you send love.

After a minute, you can touch her face with the love energy coming out of your hands. Make sure you receive this feeling too.

Food Games

The mouth is very sensual. Just about everyone loves kissing. Think about kissing with chocolate candy in your mouth. It can get very sexy when you pass it back and forth. Messy too!

Coat her in chocolate sauce, and then lick it all off. Blindfold her and have her guess what you are putting in her mouth, like frozen grapes, orange slices, mangoes or a piece of menthol peppermint candy, This is very luscious for oral sex and kissing as you can pass it back and forth between each other. One can use the candy as extra sexual stimulation during oral sex.

Making Out in Foreplay

Teasing and delayed gratification are huge turns on for most people. Think back to when you were a teenager. Do you remember the great making out in the back of a car?

So make out with all of your clothes on for ages. Tease your lover by not going too fast. Spend a lot of time without taking off the dress.

Teasing

Teasing is a hot way of turning up the heat. Kiss and move away again and again to tease. Touch her breasts for a while and move away. Tease!

Erotic Massage

The next foreplay tip is about erotic massage. Most of us are not trained in giving a sensual massage to our lover. To start the massage, I like to use fur or feathers I use very light strokes over the body. You will find that slow and sensual is better than hard and fast.

One can now use massage oil over all of your lover’s body. It is best to use warm oil. Massage all of her body before going to the breasts and genitals.

Erectile Dysfunction and Vascular Disease

In medicine, erectile dysfunction is defined as “lack of man’s ability to obtain or maintain erection sufficient for sexual intercourse”. The erection of the penis requires orchestrated operation of vascular, nervous and hormonal region. The message of sexual stimulation triggered by the brain is transmitted through the spinal cord to nerve endings that reach the corpora cavernosa – spongy consistency of structures to fill with blood causing the penis erection.

When receiving the message, endothelial cells (lining of the inner wall of the arteries) of the penile arteries release neurotransmitters which will relax the smooth muscle of the blood vessels supplying the corpus cavernosum, facilitating their filling.

Chief among these is the neurotransmitter nitric oxide. The accumulation of this substance facilitates the relaxation of the trabeculae which constitute the corpora cavernosa to increase the inflow of blood. Most drugs used for treatment of erectile dysfunction, exerts its action by increasing concentrations of dopamine in the vessels of the penis.

As men do not like to admit they suffer from erectile dysfunction, it is not always easy to estimate the prevalence of the problem. In one of the most respected studies on the subject, the Massachusetts Male Aging Study, conducted with 1290 men between 40 and 70 years, it was shown that 52% had some degree of dysfunction and 10% had complete absence of erection.

The erectile dysfunction can be classified as psychogenic, organic or mixed. The organic cause can be of vascular origin, neurogenic, hormonal, and drug-induced or be associated with anatomical changes in the corpus cavernosum.

Contrary to what many think, the organic causes are the most common: they are about 80% of cases. Important among them are vascular causes:

1) Atherosclerosis:

It is the most common of all causes. In the mechanism of formation of atherosclerotic plaques occurs to induce endothelial injury with consequent reduction of the internal diameter of the vessel and difficulty maintaining blood flow. Aging also changes the endothelium nitric oxide levels, damaging the blood into the corpora cavernosa.

2) Cigarette:

Smoking for many years is one of the biggest risk factors for the development of erectile dysfunction vascular cause. Toxic substances present in cigarette cause damage to the endothelium and reduce the levels of nitric oxide in the penis. In addition, nicotine itself causes contraction of smooth muscles of blood vessels that irrigate the corpora cavernosa, reducing the blood supply to the site.

3) Diabetes:

In the Massachusetts Male Aging Study, 28% of diabetic patients had erectile dysfunction, compared to 9.6% of non-diabetics (prevalence three times). The causes are linked to more accelerated atherosclerosis, changes in the tissues of the corpora cavernosa and diabetic neuropathy.

4) Hypertension:

It is a major cause of erectile dysfunction as American study cited above made clear. Would it be caused by hypertension itself or was related to the anti-hypertensive medication? This controversy was clarified by a recent study: both drugs as hypertension itself can be held responsible for erection difficulties.

5) Hyperlipidemia:

The presence of high blood levels of LDL-cholesterol, triglycerides and fibrinogen are associated with erectile dysfunction in both smokers and non-smokers.

The listing above shows that the factors erectile dysfunction and cardiovascular diseases share similar risk factors. Erection difficulty may be the first symptom of coronary disease, since both are linked to impairment of the endothelium, an essential framework for the regulation of the circulatory functions.

Since the risk factors mentioned act synergistically on the vascular endothelium, the extent and severity of cardiovascular involvement is often proportional to the degree of difficulty of erection.

Female ejaculation

Even today, when sex is no longer a taboo and all the information regarding sex is available on the internet, only a small number of people is familiar with female ejaculation. Even the old Indians who lived few thousand years ago knew about female ejaculation. Unfortunately, many modern men and women have only heard about it, but they are not sure if this type of ejaculation actually exists. In tantric yoga, the ancient eastern practice that combines spirituality and sexuality, the fluid ejaculated by women is called amrita or divine nectar. This fluid in the vagina is which occurs during sexual arousal comes from many sources – Bartholin and Skene’s glands, which are located at the crossroads of the opening of the vagina and vulva and the walls of vagina during sexual stimulation. Properly stimulated women during sexual intercourse experience a rush of fluids in the vagina and this fluid is usually discharged during orgasm.

All those men who wonder whether the feeling of female ejaculation is similar to their ejaculation should know that these feelings are not similar because female ejaculation is much stronger. Many women and men look at this ejaculation as some kind of achievement. Men are really proud because they believe if ejaculation occurs then they were especially good in the bed. But, this is the moment when we need to point out that the mechanism of female ejaculation is not physiologically identical to male ejaculation. Female ejaculation doesn’t even have to be (in fact it often isn’t) associated with orgasm, but more with great excitement and stimulation of certain body parts. So, female ejaculation is not necessarily a guarantee of a stronger, better, longer and more powerful orgasm, although it usually means greater excitement. Now let’s see how this work in practice.

The “recipe” is actually very simple. If you want to make your partner ejaculate during the sexual intercourse, stimulate and excite her, but don’t let her reach an orgasm. Of course, you need to be aware that this procedure is much easier in cases when the partners are together for a long period of time. Some modern women are frustrated because of a variety of reasons that they are ready to grab the first orgasm offered to them and they tend to be very dissatisfied if you stop doing the things that suit them, change the pace or something similar. Many people view women as climbers that slowly but surely climb to the peak. This means that women are able to reach an orgasm only when they are certain that they can reach it. This is the only time when they are relaxed enough.

It is good to point out that there is no universal rule. Each woman requires individual approach. Before you start this journey when you have time and will, when you are well rested and never create pressure on your partner by saying that this is the night when she will ejaculate strong. Keep in mind that female ejaculation is not something that can be planned, it doesn’t happen every time and if sometimes doesn’t occur this doesn’t mean that your partner is less satisfied.