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What is Spontaneous Erection and How to Deal With It?

Spontaneous erections can be really annoying. They are unwanted erections that often happen in very awkward situations. These erections are completely natural and they are part of the sexual development. They occur very often during puberty and the reason is simple – increased level of hormones. They appear without any reason and in the least appropriate time and they can surely cause trouble, discomfort and embarrassing moments. It’s not a sexual problem. This is why many teenagers and men often wonder what they can do in order to prevent or hide this occurrence. Spontaneous erection disappears relatively quickly if you don’t pay much attention to it.

One of the ways that can help you with spontaneous erections is to wear tighter underwear which cannot be stretched. In this way you will prevent your erection to become so visible. Besides underwear there are few other things that you can do in order to camouflage your unwanted erection. For example, when it comes to pants you should try different tactics – wear slacks. They will not only cover your erection but they will give you the opportunity to completely hide the erection. You can put your hands in your pockets and just stretch them and the erection won’t be visible at all. Wearing a combination of tight underwear and slacks will almost certainly help you cover the thing you are desperately trying to hide. Better Sexual Health.

Clothes can really help you with this problem. You can also use a bigger t-shirt or shirt that goes under your butt. Even a sleeveless shirt can help if you learn to wear one above your belt not under it. If you are still in school or college you can use your bag to cover your erection. Just make sure you find one that is big enough for you. In this way you will be completely masked.

If you are an athlete or for any other reason you are sharing a bathroom with a group of people (sauna etc.) and you are afraid that your penis can make an unpleasant surprise while you are showering it is a good idea to masturbate before you go to the bathroom. This will provide you an advantage of at least 30 minutes when you can be calm and relaxed. While we are talking about relaxation and how to avoid this situation it is good to know that in general the more frequently you have ejaculation the lower the chances of spontaneous erection are.

If this is too complicated for you try some of these things:

–          While you are sitting stretch your legs and pump the muscle in the front. The blood from your penis should be diverted to your legs and the spontaneous erection will be gone. This may sound a little bit extreme but pinching can help too. Mild pain can divert the blood in that area.

–          Try to focus on some other things and ignore the erection.

There is no doubt that spontaneous erection is uncomfortable but this state doesn’t last long.

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Few Ways to Make Sex Last Longer

There are a lot of men who are wondering how they can extend the time of the sexual intercourse. The answer is actually really simple – through practicing some exercises and learning few techniques.

A lot of articles deal with premature ejaculation, but very few focus on extending the normal sexual intercourse. Many men feel uncomfortable because they want their sex to last longer but they can’t find a way to postpone the ejaculation for some period. It is important to be aware that the key factor for making you lasting longer in bed is in your head. The more you are worried the worse results in your bed you will have. Having a partner that constantly makes pressure about the duration of sex can also worsen the situation. If you want to improve and extend your sex, both of you should be patient, careful and optimistic. There are many ways to extend your intercourse and one of the most important thing sis to known your own body and the way it is functioning. Once you master that, your intercourse will be much better. Now let’s see some of the ways that can help you extend your sex.

First of all, try to stimulate your penis to the point where you start to feel that ejaculation is about to happen. In that moment stop the stimulation or even pull out the penis from the vagina and keep it outside until your sexual desire decreases. You can do this several times during one intercourse. After few weeks you will feel the results – you will last longer and you won’t need to practice this technique. Of course, your partner should be aware before you start using this technique because the sudden stop in the intercourse can be unpleasant. Once you explain the benefits she will surely support you.

Another similar method has proven to be effective too. Right before you feel that you are about to ejaculate squeeze your penis. Use the thumb under the glans penis and use the index finger to hold the glans penis. Remember to make a firm grip. The best thing to do is to focus on squeezing the urethra which passes along the penis.

Although condoms are usually used for prevention of unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, condoms can also be used to gain endurance during sexual intercourse. Using a thicker condom will additionally decrease the sensitivity of your penis during the intercourse.

Masturbation is another great way to improve sexual endurance and decrease sexual tension. With more frequent masturbation you can develop a routine that can lead to extended sexual intercourse. You can also stop masturbating before ejaculation if you want to get better results.

Just like masturbation, using sex toys can make you feel more resistant to sexual stimulation. There are many different types of sex toys on the market and the most efficient ones are the so-called sexual stimulators. You can also use a sex toy during sex especially in the periods when you feel that you can’t stop ejaculation any longer.

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How To Make Him Reach Orgasm Faster?

There are some days when women are not in the mood for having a long sex or they are just tired of pleasing their men for a longer period. Luckily there are few things that women can do to help men reach orgasm faster.

First of all, you can use his foreskin in order to speed up things. If you gently pull the foreskin of his penis down, he will feel the stimulation in a much more intensive way. This will of course cause him to ejaculate much faster. Experienced men can always keep their ejaculation a little bit longer, especially if they are focused on satisfying their partner.

Have you ever heard about frenulum? The frenulum is by far the most sensitive part of the penis. The frenulum is actually the part of the penis just under the glans penis and you can easily spot it because it looks like a spot where the penis is pressed – like it has some kind of seam. You can certainly speed up the ejaculation if you properly stimulate this part of the penis. This can be achieved very easily if you use some kind of lubricant, which will dampen the dry skin. If you are practicing oral sex, use the tip of your tongue to tease the frenulum and if you use your hands and fingers, glide over that area with clenched fingers while gently stroking his penis. Make sure that the pressure you apply on the penis is not too strong, because too rough or too fast stroking can cause insensitivity or even some injuries. So this can cause a counter effect if you don’t do it properly.

Manual stimulation of the penis (or so-called handjob) is another way to help men reach orgasm faster. If you are getting ready to perform a massage like that make sure you apply oil on your hands and use your whole hand to pull the penis up and down. Remember that this massage must be performed gently and try to determine what kind of rhythm makes him more aroused. You can make a combination of this sexual stimulation with oral sex which can stimulate his penis even more. Don’t be carried away by this act because you can easily get injured (neck injuries).

Many men find female masturbation very attractive. So, don’t be shy and gently rub your nipples and vagina. This will instantly cause a reaction in your partner and he will most likely start to masturbate too. This is a great way to take a break if you are very tired.

Some men have a spot on the bottom of their penis, right under the testicles or in some cases near to the anus, which can intensify their feelings if it’s under pressure. If you know where that spot is find the right moment and press that spot when you think that he is near to the end. You can also combine this method with oral sex, but this is only possible for women that are very experienced.

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Anejaculation – definition and treatment

Orgasm in men is accompanied with release of semen. For many men sex act without ejaculation is something they can’t imagine and they really enjoy that part of the sex act. Men are very sensitive when it comes to their sperm. They always keep track of its color, smell, in some cases taste, the amount of sperm and even with the power of ejaculation. Every ancient culture was interested in this liquid and they usually paid special attention and gave significance to it. Consequently, weak ejaculation or inability of ejaculation was considered as a weakness and loss of manhood. As you can see sperm has played a significant role even before scientists in the second half of the 18th century were able to prove that sperm actually fertilizes eggs. The prejudices that men have about their sperm causes a lot of problems even today. These prejudices and misconceptions are often boosted by movies with pornographic content in which usually men have incredibly strong ejaculations.

Anejaculation is a term used to describe the inability of sperm secretion. This situation can be caused by both physical and mental difficulties. In these cases a man produces quality sperm but this sperm is unable to leave the penis. This means that the man suffering from anejaculation is not sterile. Furthermore, in most of the cases of anejaculation men have the ability to achieve orgasm.

When it comes to physical causes of anejaculation in most cases the reason is neurological damages. Another reason that is often causing problems like these is diabetes.

Anejaculation caused by mental causes is a little bit different. In most cases psychological anejaculation is accompanied with inability to have orgasm. This type of anejaculation can be temporal or occasional. Occasional, means that a man can ejaculate in some situations while in others he is completely unable to ejaculate. These cases usually occur because of some specific situations or because of the partner with whom the man has sex. The best way to check if the anejaculation is happening because of certain situations is by performing masturbation. Usually men don’t have any problems ejaculating while they masturbate but they can’t ejaculate when they are having actual sexual intercourse. In many cases relaxation can affect very positively on occasional anejaculation. When we talk about complete anejaculation it is important to understand that the men suffering from this type of anejaculation can’t ejaculate while they are awake, but they ejaculate at night while they are sleeping. This type of anejaculation has some deep roots and the best option for people that are suffering from it is to visit a doctor, possibly a psychiatrist.

In order to properly treat anejaculation you should first determine the source that is causing it. Only when the right cause is determined the treatment can begin. Some of the methods of treatment include – psychotherapies, drugs and electro treatment. Of course, when the cause of anejaculation is some physical injury visiting a therapist or undergoing a surgery is the best option.

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How To Reach Stunning Organisms While Enjoying Great Sex

When it comes to making love, people fail to understand that this is an art. As a man, if you want to have great sex, you must learn how to give your woman outstanding pleasure and see to it that every time you make love she may reach orgasm.

Now that you have sort your lady, it’s time we also took things up a notch and learnt how to turn our climax into an event that is spectacular. Having this thought in mind, below are two very amazing ways that when implemented will help any man enjoy mind blowing sex alongside his special lady…

Lengthen you Staying Power

Without flinching; statistics (alarming!) state that over 92% of men reach orgasm long before their lady is due. But what we have to discover is, every man has the ability of holding back and wait for their lady reach orgasm and afterwards turn his orgasm into a stronger, harder and very enjoyable ejaculation.

What or how is this possible?

For starters, you need to stop focusing on sensation which engulfs your genitalia as you two make love. Instead, you need to lay your focus on how pleasurable the act is and feel the sweetness in every fibre of your body.

If you feel that your orgasm is on its way, just stop for a minute or instead of drilling her, start thrusting nicer and slow. For the opportunist, this is the time you continue fondling your lady and giving her pleasurable oral sex.

As you pleasure her orally, your arousal will be lowered a few notches and you will be able to reach a point where you can start thrusting again. Continue repeating this process until when you arrive at a point where you feel it’s time to let go….

Hold Your Orgasm In

When you near the point of ejaculation, you will start feeling the involuntary contractions around the pelvic area. Before anything happens, start squeezing your PC muscle and as much as you can, try to hold off your ejaculation.

The PC muscle is the same that we all squeeze when we want to disrupt the flow of urine. After having reached an orgasm, and having held it back, when you are ready to release, it bursts forth in a mighty way and this is the instance that you’ll be able to enjoy extreme pleasure.

Strengthen the PC Muscle

If you want to be a stallion in the bedroom, you need to learn how to work your PC muscle. You should start by strengthening it. All you have to do is contract the PC muscles and hold for twenty seconds and release.

Repeat this process for five minutes continuously, once or three times a day and within no time you will have learnt how to hold your orgasm and deliver a sexual performance that is nothing else but Stella!!

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What Is Orgasmic Dysfunction?

Difficulties in reaching orgasm are called orgasmic dysfunction. This usually means that we cannot experience orgasm at all or we need very long time in order to achieve it. This condition has different symptoms and causes in men and women. When it comes to men, this usually means that they will ejaculate early; this of course prevents normal sexual intercourse. This term can also be used for situations when our orgasms are not that intensive and powerful like they used to be or when orgasms are accompanied by pain. Male and female orgasmic disorders have some similarities but they are very different in certain aspects.

Let’s start with orgasmic disorders in women. Orgasms experienced by women have been an interesting subject for years. Although in the past male orgasm was more important because of the ability to allow fertilization and reproduction, female orgasm was explored because it was thought that it can help with conception. Another fact about female orgasm is that women are usually less aware of their bodies, they don’t explore it when they are younger like many men do and that’s why they usually have troubles finding out what turns them on and what can lead them to real orgasm. The erogenous zones, like the clitoris or the well known G spot, are more hidden and women must make some efforts in order to find them and stimulate them. However, when we talk about orgasmic dysfunction in women, that doesn’t mean that the woman and her partner don’t stimulate the erogenous zone right, it means that despite all the efforts she can’t reach orgasm. This is called anorgasmia and it means that the woman has never experienced orgasm or that she can experience orgasm only with masturbation but not with her partner. The causes of all types of anorgasmia are mostly of psychological nature and rarely physical. They can be linked with negative experiences with sexuality and they can be solved with self-exploration of the body and better communication with the partner.

When it comes to male orgasmic dysfunctions, we should point out that these dysfunctions come in two types. The first one is when the man can’t reach orgasm despite the long stimulation and the second one is when he is experiencing early orgasms. This means that ejaculation occurred very early and made further sexual intercourse impossible. Some experts divide premature ejaculation in two groups – primary and secondary. The primary is a problem that lasts for the whole life while the secondary develops at some point in the life because of various reasons. Whatever the reason is this premature ejaculation or having trouble reaching orgasm affects men even more seriously because they feel less manly. However, in some cases inability to reach orgasm comes as a result of taking certain medications, overstimulation and other physical and psychological factors that can be solved. In these cases removing the factors will solve the problem immediately.

It is good for both women and men to try to figure out what might be the cause for their orgasmic dysfunction. If the cause is some physical disorder, consulting a doctor is a must.

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What Is Vasectomy?

Many men don’t know what vasectomy is and many have heard about it but don’t know exactly how it works. Some of them think that it is a process for complete removal of the testicles; some think that it is a process that will deny the experience that leads to an erection and orgasm while others think about it as a simple removal of manhood. These assumptions are completely wrong. Vasectomy is a medical intervention that permanently ensures men that they won’t be part of any unwanted pregnancy. It is actually a form of contraception that should be taken only when you are sure that you don’t want children. In many countries this procedure can be performed on patients that are older than 30. The procedure is very simple and it is finished only after a few minutes and the good thing is that there are almost no side effects. The surgeon simply redirects, or gets the vas deferens ligated to be more precise, which stops the sperm from leaving the scrotum. Ejaculation during orgasm is still present just like before the surgery but the sperm now doesn’t contain seed that is essential for reproduction.

When a man starts to think about vasectomy it is a little bit different because first of all examinations are a lot more difficult for men compared to women. Women get used to gynecological examinations after their first sexual intercourse or even before. They are not afraid of the examination itself. When it comes to medical procedures of male genitalia the situation is different. Many men don’t even want to talk about it. It is certainly good to know that not every female contraception (designed just for women) brings only positive effects. Hormonal protection (birth control pills) for example can cause a lot of physical complications like migraine, breast cancer etc. while sterilization or intrauterine devices are much more complicated methods compared to vasectomy. Besides that these methods can cause severe inflammation of the womb, discomfort and bleeding during sex and of course unpleasant feeling for the partner. There are cases with intrauterine implants where a man can feel the implant with his penis. In all these cases it is certainly very important to talk about the various options that are available. Condoms are of course the simplest method.

Another not so well known fact is that vasectomy is a reversible process (in 95% of the cases) which is not the case with female sterilization (irreversible process). Of course before any of these two procedures take place the patient should be completely certain that he or she doesn’t want children. Since it is possible for men to change their mind, doctors can perform a procedure that is called vasovasostomy and procedure that can reconnect the seminal vesicles. However this procedure is not always successful and there is a chance that the patient will remain infertile. The process of vasovasostomy is an expensive and difficult and that’s why patients are advised to think about both vasectomy and vasovasostomy carefully.